Is it ok to keep things that were from a different time, a different person? I know that people are different in how they handle being an 'ex,' but some things I deem unnecessary to hold on to.
I get rid of everything - pictures, videos - especially those of a sexual nature. I wouldn't like finding that kind of stuff of my new guy with his ex so I don't want anyone else to feel that way. It is hurtful. Why is it being held on to? To go back and re-live the moment? Maybe think about what you don't have anymore? I just don't understand the point in keeping these things.
I think that I am irreversibly incapable of trust.